You should invest in everything that leads to pleasure and take your time to really enjoy the foreplay: kisses all over your body or his, French kisses, massages, oral sex, nipple or breast play, anal play, and more.
It’s sexy, it’s sensual, and it can be very pleasurable. Just make sure you do what you love. It is also suitable for you to know that you can add a sex toy for each play. Remember, you and your partner can totally experience orgasm this way!